Friday, November 25, 2011

THANKSGIVING - in photos



Thankfulness is the soil in which joy thrives.

"...that ye...take upon you the name of Christ; that ye humble yourselves...and worship God...and that ye live in thanksgiving daily, for the many mercies and blessings which he doth bestow upon you." (Alma 34:38)


 So as we mark our first thanksgiving in the Philippines...

Today we are thankful for:

A street broom. 

 

A clothes washer.


A bathroom sink. 


A vacuum (carpet sweeper).
 


A toothbrush holder. 

  

Warm winter weather, errr, more like HOT winter weather                         (our gummi worms got real friendly in the glove box).   


Friends who like Halo-halo dessert (best when stirred).   

  

Cameron and Kim saving us from grass jelly                                          (sending us radical jello flavors - like RASPBERRY!)



Fresh vegies...small but fresh!       

Durian fruit...smells like hell-o, tastes like hell-o. 


Atis fruit...tastes better than durians.


Happy Thanksgiving! 

 

We celebrated Monday with the senior missionaries.
 


 Elder & Sister Howell: 

 Yea, parents whose hearts did swell with thanksgiving to their God, for the many privileges and blessings which he bestowed upon their family.    (Likening Alma 48:12) 

We love you!!!   Have a happy day! 
Mom and Dad
Carolyn and Lane
Sister & Elder Howell

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Epistle #3 of 20

Hi Friends and Family,

Since our mission is exactly 100 weeks, 
we thought we would send 20 reports; 
about 1 every 5 weeks.  That should be plenty.  



Carolyn was asked to help create a newsletter.  The first edition was mid-September.  It is strictly electronic and goes to about 2000 email boxes.  She is really in her element - coloring, assembling, puzzling and editing. 


The Philippines is made up of islands, 7,000+ of them.  They are divided into 3 sections:   North - Luzon, Central - Visayas, South - Mindanao.  We live on Luzon and it feels like our "continent". Occasionally, we travel to two smaller islands called Marinduque (Mare-an-dew-kay) and Mindoro.  


We have taken our car on the 3 hour ferry rides, but found it easier to take the "supercat", a one hour passenger-only boat. (This trip we were treated to a DVD of open-heart surgery amid sea squalls and moaning.)


Each of these 2 islands has church congregations scattered like banana leaves in the wind, in many little towns.  When you consider that the Philippines is remote, then these islands are "remoter", and their little towns, miles in, up and around tropical mountain roads are among the "remotest" places you are apt to find church members in this world. 

 

But the members are sincere, faithful, well-studied and eager to receive visitors.  Occasionally we hear people call out to us "hi Joe", an endearing nickname held over from WWII.  We are real novelties. 


We've decided to venture out on Sundays and visit a different congregation each week so that we can meet many of the young people in this area.  We attend RS/PH, then sit in on a sunday school class.  There we meet the local full-time missionaries, the ward mission leader, new converts and investigators.  And always there is a tender and enlightening Sacrament mtg.


Here are highlights from our meetings:
 
Many times hymns are sung without accompaniment.  The chorister then becomes a "singing compass".  She/he starts by singing the first line as a solo, pauses and says "ready, sing."  Luckily for us the hymn books are in English.  Filipinos can read, sing and understand english.  Thank goodness.  The singing of hymns is a real unifying experience.  It's conversational English that challenges many locals.   They say speaking it gives them a "nose bleed"...and laugh.  We reply that speaking Tagolag gives us a "brainfreeze".


Classes are most often taught in tagolag and then Elder & Sister Howell are called on to comment.  This means we need to be following along in our English manuals.  One day, Lane pointed at Carolyn and said, "Sister Howell will answer for us."  Luckily she had been reading the lesson but she had no idea where the teacher had paused.  She stood and reviewed the importance of chastity and sexual purity (lesson #39).  Nuff said. 


In one town on Marinduque we were privileged to visit in the home of an incredible church leader.  President L is an institution in the Philippines -- a man of many firsts.  He is a humble, elderly, talented and smart man, an attorney by profession, and a landowner.  His grandfather was a chinese houseboy who insisted that his children all get a college education, despite living in poverty.  Three generations later, President L has children who are not only faithful Christians they are also accomplished in their careers.

Pictured; dedicated church leaders who evidence by their actions that they truly love God.  They make our hearts happy!  


We planned one Sunday to meet a church leader at his congregation in Nasugbu.  We were warmly welcomed and invited share a few words of encouragement to the congregation. In the process we shared our feelings about our church mission.  Early in the meeting, a young, beautiful, sister missionary walked up and sidled next to Sis H and began whispering a translation into her ear.  Very sweet.  After meetings we met with the priesthood leader and were invited to his home for lunch.  Very nice.  Their two young children scooted next door to G'ma's house so they wouldn't have to speak english to us and we sat in their two chairs.  

(pictured:  The Howells attend a youth activity, sharing closing remarks)


Sunday morning in Santa Cruz Laguna.  We visited the Gospel Principles class where we met Josephine, an investigator and the family of Maria, newly baptized.  Again, as we enter the church we are invited to speak to the congregation.  12 fans whirl overhead.  Two full-time missionaries sing a splendid version of "I Need Thee Every Hour".  Congregants sing along or mouth the words.  Josephine, seated on the front row bows her head and dabs at her eyes.  Maria's family of 5 are welcomed as new members of the church!  The chapel is full to the brim.  We look out the open windows at rusted tin roofs, palm and banana trees swaying in the breeze.  We think about our testimonies and how easy it is here to stand up and share our beliefs, to express love, happiness and encouragement.


The members simply shower us with greetings, and reach out everywhere to shake our hands.  Parents nudge their wee little toddlers to do the same.  One brother greeted us and said "welcome home!"  We nearly cried.  

Here is a photo taken after we spoke as part of a church conference.  Members made us special name tags, hung flower-medallions on our necks and afterward gave Sis H a flower bouquet.  Very sweet.  Two branch choirs performed touching, inspiring numbers.  We are amazed and grateful to be here.

 

General Conference:  With a 14 hour time differential it is not advisable to participate in the 'live' sessions (meetings) at Sunday midnight, 4:00am and then PH at 8:00am on Monday morning.   SO, conference weekend here occurs at normal times, but one week later.  It is a world and a week away from standing on our balcony in SLC watching the crowds snaking their way to temple square.  But just in case there are startling announcements, like a temple on Mindoro, we google the conference news as it happens.  

Many of our days are spent traveling the highways and byways (mostly the latter) on our way to provide training, or teach English or other classes.  A few days we spend at our home office, texting young people, preparing lessons or working on the newsletters.  
 
Here's a tricycle loaded with banana leaves headed to a restaurant that will wrap them around warm rice.


When we travel, we spend between 1 - 3.5 hours to drive to our destination, several hours teaching, meeting and greeting, and then a couple of hours to get home.  The traveling is usually tense and draining, especially coming home on rainy nights, so a trip consumes the better part of our time and energy on any given day. We love it!!  Our pathways are getting so familiar, we can almost drive them with our eyes closed.  In fact, there are many times Carolyn has to close her eyes while Lane drives.

One evening while driving through the flooded streets of Santa Cruz we ran over a submerged curb.  The front bumper was torn loose so we pulled over and Lane crawled underneath to do a quick fix to get us home.  Carolyn stood over him holding 2 umbrellas to semi-protect us as we knelt in puddles. 

Our preparation days are segmented.  We rarely get a day that is not mostly business, so our visits to the stores, or banks, or scenic sites are often intermingled with our missionary duties.  Such is the blessing of a Senior Mission.  You control your own schedule.  It is not uncommon for us to arrive home around midnight, so our wake-up times are varied also.  However, we recently found a Monday afternoon, unencumbered, and decided to just take a relaxing, wandering trip around one of the San Pablo region's 7 lakes.  Lake Palakpakin.  What a fun few hours.  No pressure driving.  We let everyone pass US!  On a mountain road we looked through the jungle to see the lake below, and stopping, asked how to get down to the lake.  A kind gentleman offered to escort us, so we pulled over and began a small hike.  At the lakeshore, we asked if was possible to rent a boat (rowboat, canoe, or whatever) so we could go out on the lake.  That was such a novel concept to him - no such possibility existed.  But he offered to take us out on HIS boat for free.  We were delighted.  


Then we saw it - 6 or 7 long bamboo poles strapped together.  No sides.  Just a long, narrow raft.  But it did have a seat on the end - a sitting surface of about 6 inches by 15 inches,  raised off the bamboo poles by about 4 inches.  He invited Lane to board and have a seat.  Lane bit.  And then Lane asked where Carolyn would go.  He laughed and said "not 2 Americanos on one boat -- too big".  But then, in broken Taglish (Tagalog mixed with English) he offered to strap his uncle's boat to his own and take us both. How could we resist?  With this kind man paddling, out we went on the lake.  Since these are volcanic mountains, the lakes take on the appearance of exotic crater lakes - heavenly, peaceful floating.  (Please, no comments about the lake level under these two passengers).


Every such lake has fish-farms.  Ernesto graciously walked us through the economics.  Turns out he is the administrator of the permits for that lake.  It goes something like this:  (remember, 42 pesos equals one dollar)  600 pesos for an annual permit.  You get about 10 meters by 10 meters of lake surface and you surround it with bamboo poles that hold the netting for your fish.  The netting drops down into the water about 5 meters and keeps all your fish captive.  Typically you attach your farm to neighboring farms for stability.  Buy fingerlings from neighboring farms for about 2000 pesos, and bags of fish food for about 500 pesos per bag.  


Then, when your fish are grown, you capture them and sell them into a local market for 80 pesos per kilo(2.2 lbs).  Ernesto can produce enough fish to net (no pun intended) about 6000 pesos per month.  This becomes his major family income.  To keep it in perspective, Elder & Sister Howell, living in the same economy, draw 10,000 pesos from our U.S. savings every 3-4 days.  But our home is not made of tin, scrap boards, a dirt floor and outdoor plumbing.  And we have a diet that goes beyond fish heads and rice.  Humbling.


We would have readily given $100 for a similar experience anywhere in the world.  Despite his resistance Ernesto would only let us pay him p500, or about $12.50.  

We love our mission.  We can work as hard as we have energy, and rest when we need to.  And we are living in a tropical paradise, amongst some of the kindest, gentlest people on earth.  What more could you ask?


We know God loves us because He sent His own Son to guide us safely home.

Our love to you all,
Dad & Mom
Lane & Carolyn
Elder and Sister Howell

Friday, November 11, 2011

My Daddy - Dennis Allen Creek


Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Today Lane and I drove Elder and Sister B to St Luke's in Manila for a followup doctors appointment.  While we were there I received a call from President P.  He asked that I call my brother Clayton.  Since we were shopping in S&R and I had no ability to make an international call I questioned President P if he knew what Clayton had to say.  After he affirmed that he did, I asked, "Did my father die?"  He said "Yes, was he ill?"  "No, but he was 83."  Lane and I stood by the cheese case.  He held me in his arms, I cried briefly and then we had to continue with our day.  Later that night President P, his wife and the office couple stopped by our home for a visit.

We quickly decided to stay the course, remain in the Philippines and miss the funeral.  The following depicts some of the communication that we were privileged to have during this time of reflection.

EMAIL:
My dear Jerry,                                              Tues. Nov 8, 2011
I really can feel your hug!  Thank you for your eternal love. It's actually been a good day. I feel peaceful and calm and blessed. I am so blessed to be your momma.
Of all the days to be in Manila...away from home, the internet and Skype. But Clayton persisted in reaching our wonderful mission president who gave me a call and broke the news of my dad's passing.  I then borrowed a phone and spoke with Clayton, my mom (and even Jami who was with my mom).
Please hug ALL of my family when you see them, this week especially. 
What's the latest news concerning my expected g'child?
Jerry, I love you forever!
Momma
OBITUARY:

Dennis Allen Creek




07/14/1928 ~ 11/7/2011
...born July 14, 1928 to Shelby and Edith Creek in Evanston, Wyoming, passed away peacefully from this life November 7, 2011 at his home in West Valley City, Utah.
He was married in the Manti Temple, Manti, Utah, and is survived by Elna, his wife of 58 years, and their seven children; Chris and Charla Hancuff, Curtis and Kolene Creek, Clayton and Michelle Creek, Lane and Carolyn Howell, and their loving Howell family, Chris and Lorie Creek, Rick and Cathy Hightower, and Daryl and Cecile Shumway. Dennis and Elna are the grandparents of 37 and great grandparents of 21. His brother, Ken Creek, and sister, Doris Simm both reside in Vancouver, Washington.
Dad was educated at Brigham Young University, and the University of Washington. He was an educator and an administrator at the Toutle Lake School, and made his home in Longview, Washington for over 30 years. Dad loved poetry, good books, chess, hiking, mountain climbing, traveling, big bands at Disneyland, playing the piano, family talent shows, and teaching others, especially his family. Because of his wide variety of interests, he was able to have a great influence on the happiness and traditions of our family. He was an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, where he served as the Organist. Our Father served proudly in the Navy.
Dad quoted these works by G.B. Shaw and lived by them. "This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature…. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live."
Funeral Services will be held Friday, November 11, 2011 at 11:00 a.m. at the Academy Ward, 4605 West Point Drive. The family will receive friends at a visitation Thursday evening from 6:00 until 8:00 p.m. at Valley View Funeral Home, 4335 West 4100 South; and one hour prior to the service on Friday at the Ward.


EMAIL:

Hello Howell Family,                   Tues. November 8, 2011

It is with much sadness that we tell you of the passing of Carolyn's wonderful father, Dennis Creek.

Yesterday, (Monday afternoon) Dennis went shopping with Elna for a new sweater, since Tinkerbell had dropped a spark in the pocket of his old one and burned a hole during one of the recent puppet shows.   They returned home to relax and Dennis worked for a while on a jig-saw puzzle.  Later, as he was resting, he sat back in his chair, folded his arms and groaned.  Elna checked on him, only to find he was not breathing.  He apparently suffered a heart attack and died instantly.

The funeral will be Friday.  We will not be able to attend but know the celebration of this unusual man will be a wonderful event.

Carolyn is very sad, but has a certain understanding of the life beyond and her father's pathway.  She will always remember him fondly.  Your support of Carolyn's mother, and the rest of the Creek family is certainly appreciated.

Love,
Dad


MY MEMORIES: (Each of the 7 C's had three minutes at the funeral, Jerry stood in for me)

It was September 2002 and I held a plane ticket from Florida to Washington to help Mom and Dad put a fresh coat of paint on the house.  Lane’s job had ‘quit’ him the week before but we had kept that news from mom and dad.  We had some important decisions to make.  Should I cancel my flight, stay in Florida, prepare the house for sale and begin packing, or travel to Washington?  


I flew to Washington believing that I could be a big help painting the house.  When I arrived at the house my parents enthusiastically marched me outside to survey their painting progress.  It was 95% complete!  I thought, “I should have stayed in Florida.”  When Dad saw the disappointment on my face he exclaimed “you didn’t come to just paint the house did you!?  We’d rather spend our time with you at the beach!”


And so there I was, alone with my parents......for the very first time!  Off we went to the beach!  I have always treasured that week, being the only child.



My parents were full of surprises like this.  But it was Dad who especially loved to be unpredictable.  

He told me “happiness is non-conformity!  Someone who goes along doing everything like everybody else does is not a happy person.  If you’re supposed to floss and you don’t, you have a better chance for happiness.”

For grades 7 and 8 I tagged along with Dad to Toutle Lake School.  He was my English and band teacher.  The days were often long due to faculty and PTA meetings, play practices, or having to take a ‘school bus run’.  He set up a little hot plate above the band room and we’d heat up canned stew for dinner.  Those 2 years were rich in many ways.  Later, he was the HS principal but finally settled into 5th grade - his favorite grade to teach. 

When I left for BYU our incredible mother would write faithfully; on beautiful stationary, detailing family life and news of ward friends.  Dad’s letters were different.  Written rarely, jotted on a restaurant placemat or concert program, and containing a list of unusual bullet points:  
*  The barometer reading.  
*  A knock-knock joke.  
*  And whether mom had put nuts in his fudge.

Here are a few recent bullet points from Dennis Creek.
  • Make a family outing so much fun that if anyone misses it they’ll be sure not to miss twice.
  • How are you........really?
  • I’d give $1,000 to relive what I perceived to be my hardest day when my 7 kids were young.
  • Khachaturian’s piano concerto in D-flat major is a notable piece that I enjoyed playing.
  • I’d better buy your mom some more flowers.  She’s pretty nice to have around.
Dad often asked, “what can I do for you?”
Now the phrase has turned and his answer is “look after your mother for me!”

Mother, Dad is still looking after you. He has positioned you close to your children, surrounded you with grandchildren and placed you in the heart of quilting country.  

This week we did not lose dad.  We know right where he is, and he is not lost.  Christopher and Nathan found him.  He is in good hands and so are you.  I love you forever, I like you for always, as long as eternity my mother you’ll be.


Family gathering April 2010



Denali Glacier landing prior to Alaskan cruise May 2010

Reunion fun August 2010

Disneyland trip March 2011

FOR THE RECORD:

 Dennis Allen Creek – World Class Dad
 80th Birthday - July 14, 2008

Family fun:
Silent Mar – being quiet longest wins
Touch ya last 
Creek of the Week
 Nightmare Alice
Hurse-chaser – 110 mph on I-5
Daddy-daughter dates
Seaside go-carts
Bedtime stories – w/ the barber pole
“Rise’n’shine” – annoying a.m. ritual
Toots – the good kind
Spoons
Skittle hunts

Awesome abilities:
Pianist – Khachaturian, primary, lessons
Athlete - Mountain climber /top of Tetons
Mechanic – Honda repairs
Drama – community plays
Artist – set design, painter
Writer – of collectible letters
Philosopher – & advice giver
Chess – a favorite opponent 

Music memories:
To the dump song
 Stake Roadshows – Johnny Appleseed
 Banjo & scroll – When I first came to this land
 Toutle Lake – Mass band
 Whitney Houston concert in the Salt Palace

Tasty tidbits:
Momma’s fudge
Frozen fruit – all varieties
Vanilla wafers
Barber poles 
Black licorice
Bread & molasses

Vacation locations:
Disneyland 
Jackson – camping/hiking/rafting
NW Beaches
Grand Canyon

Preferred Pastimes:
Puzzles – jigsaw, word
Reading - Longview library 
Walking – streets of Longview
Greenhouse – pixie carnations