Epistle #6 of 20

HAPPY EASTER 

DEAR FAMILY & FRIENDS,

We have been neglectful in keeping up with our Philippine Epistles.  With significant and troubling family events transpiring earlier this year, and ongoing, it has been hard for us to feel like what we are doing is worthy of attention.  

But, here goes….Our most important work cannot and should not be captured on camera so you will understand that most of these photos are of p-days and scenic drives.

Today's Tagalog lesson:
Q:  How do you say Marinduque?  A:  Mare-in-dew-kay

MOUNTAIN HIKE ~ on Marinduque Island (about 1/2 the size of Maui, Hawaii)

One of our dear Stake Presidents from Lucena Stake, President B, is so full of fun!  He dotes over us and wants us to experience every aspect of this beautiful country.

Stage one of this P-day was a hike up the mountain to some caves.

The islands in the background are the ones we will boat to after the hike.

A peanut farm was a good resting point.  Who knew peanuts came from anywhere but a "Planters" bottle?  Sister Howell tries her hand at "harvesting" a few.



Carolyn seriously would like to ride a caribou one day. This one was NOT tame, so her touch was very daring.

MARINDUQUE CAVES
Is it age, or are volcanic mountains getting harder and harder to climb?  Guatemala was tough, but this was tougher!  On steep, slippery parts, you grab what you can and hold on.  Once Lane grabbed a banana tree and the Filipinos yelled,  "NO!  Do not grab banana - they are a plant, not a tree."  Too late.  The banana plant just gave way...and so did Lane.  At last the cave!


Big, beautiful stalactites and stalagmites, and various interesting limestone formations.  After retreating from the cave, and heading down the mountain, our guides told us we could pass through another cave, which would be a shortcut down.  Note to self:  Be wary of "shortcuts" with very narrow openings - leading into a pitch black bat-laden cave and treacherous 20-foot drops.  


When we could not negotiate around or across one steep drop-off, the ingenious guides abandoned us with no explanation.  After some waiting and wondering they reappeared with two bamboo poles from which they formed a ladder of sorts.  Saved!

  

BOAT RIDE ~ Marinduque Island to Melchor Island

The process of this boat ride is fun to experience: The back boat is the passenger boat.  It has no motor and no sails.  The front boat is the "tug boat".  Here you see boat captains and shore stewards -- kids!

For our meeting with seminary teachers, we took a boat ride from the Island of Marinduque around some nearby, nearly uninhabited islands.  


Away we go…just sit anywhere.  Sister Howell poses on the stern.  Passengers totaled about 20. 


Note the plastic chairs for comfort.  They are not "in", but "on" the boat.

Elder Howell acrobatics - death-defying rope swing out over the edge.  (note the tug boat)


 

TEACHING

We teach eternal gospel principles of self-reliance & integrity, hard work & sacrifice.  Even those who cannot get to church have a desire to repay their loans.  We seek them out and get acquainted.  We talk of their family, testimony and perhaps a past mission.  Tears and hugs follow and we conclude with an invitation to return to church.  Many participants thank us for assisting them in keeping their promises.  And WE readily promise that they and others are blessed when they do!

We also teach:  
-  English classes
-  "Planning for Success" workshops (which are a requirement to obtain a school loan)




- Seminars
-  Youth conference devotionals

All of the students are delightful, but shy.  Too shy to even answer a question in English.  So we often have to answer our own questions, then look at the students, smile, and see if we can get them to nod in agreement.  The only problem is they will smile back and agree to ANYTHING we say.  Their nature is to be agreeable and to tell us what they think we want to hear. 


(This agreeable nature presents problems on the highway when we ask for directions.  We ask if a town is in that direction and they will agree.  If we then ask if it is another direction, they will again smile and agree.)

They understand English but are embarrassed to speak it.  We are certainly appreciative that the young filipinos are determined to speak English and impressed that most of them know 2 or 3 languages!  Very bright, capable, hardworking and faithful latter-day saints.  We love them!



ODDS & ENDS

Some of our "chapels" are rented homes.  Here is a very colorful one in Catanauan (cat-tan-now-won).


Our PEF office in San Pablo is our 2nd floor deck on pleasant days.  

After class in Catanauan, we "hit the beach".  Not a P-day, so we just look.


Members get to church any way they can.  This is a home-made vehicle one bishop uses on his farm which doubles as the family car on Sundays.

Did you enjoy that poinsettia plant last Christmas?  Here is the King of Poinsettias, just around the corner from our home - 8 feet tall.  By the way, we are just 5 months from the start of Christmas songs and decorations in the Philippines!  That is September 1.

Sunset from our Marinduque hotel room, looking out over houses to the ocean in the distance.


Filipinos don't "air their dirty laundry", everything is first scrubbed clean in a wash basin, usually from a squatting position.  Everywhere in the Philippines laundry is hung out to dry right on the street, unmentionables and all.  In the country, guardrails will do, as will fence posts and tree branches.  We are grateful for modern washers or dryers.  One day we hope to have them again.  For now, our house helper, Noemi, spends 7 hours one day a week hand washing, hanging to dry and ironing all of our laundry, for $15.  Oh, and she cleans the house while the clothes are in the "dry cycle".  She is irreplaceable! 

Stay tuned for our first epistle from our outreach into the neighboring Naga Mission.
We miss you all back home.  We are so appreciative of how the family is uniting to address Greg's challenges.  Stay faithful, prayerful and wonderful!!!

With great love and appreciation,
Dad & Momma
Elder Lane & Sister Carolyn

Umbrellas grow on trees

Going GREEN with Umbrellas

Good afternoon all.  I grew up in rain.  Another rainy day in Sorsogon, Bicol Region (Naga Mission).  Did you know that in the Philippines umbrellas grow on trees?  Don't believe us?  Well, here's proof...

A few snapshots from our drive yesterday.  

A rainy day is more fun in the Philippines. Everyone of these good men shared a smile and a wave as my honey and I drove up the coast last Monday. 

Love, Momma Carolyn/Sister Howell

Epistle #5 of 20

Hello dear friends and family,  

We extend our love to you and want you to know how much we miss our regular association with you.  As you report important events in your lives, and as you confront life's challenges, we cheer at word of your good news, ache when we hear of your pains and are delighted to share the "just plain routine" events you are experiencing with your families.  

Here is a small photo essay of our lives in the Philippines:

We are sometimes referred to as a "Rescue Couple"...meaning we assist young students or college graduates who are struggling to stay in school or to make their loan payments or to find employment.  But to help them we first must find them.  Here we located Joanna at a youth campout, deep in a tropical setting, on the island of Marinduque. (In the center, to the right of the green flag).                                                                                                                                        

The blue tarps are their shelters.  One for the boys, one for the girls.  Bamboo poles are cut down and sliced to create platforms on which they sleep. 

We later headed for the beach to catch a "fishing boat" for a P-Day ride to an outlying island.  A rare treat....we found a footbridge that could have been in an adventure movie -- missing slats, rickety, shakey, but not life-threatening.  The drop to the water was only 8 feet.  

                    

Lunch with some wonderful friends in St. Luke's Hospital in Manila.  Elder B had had a significant emergency operation and we were assisting him back to the doctor for a follow-up appointment.  We are drinking coconut juice right from the source, trimmed up by a machete.  This is a different type of coconut from those you normally see in the stores at home. 

Our sweet neighbor harvested some bananas from across the street.  She called on us to share the treat.  We estimate the branch she is holding held 200-300 bananas before she started giving them away.  

After Stake Conference in Lipa, the kids like to play in the trees.

 

We recently traveled through tropical forests to a small ocean-side town, Mauban, to meet an outstanding young man who was challenged and needed encouragement.  On this trip we were joined by one of our dearest friends, President B. 

             

We have a garden!  The lot across the road was vacant and trash-filled, so we hired our neighbor to clear it, plant it and tend it.  This is one of our favorite flowers.  It is on a bush that produces raspberry-looking buds that burst into a feathery blossom for a day or two and then shrivel and fall off.  Maybe 30 or 40 such flowers appear on the bush at a time. 

Stake Conference in Santa Cruz Laguna was on a rainy day.  A covered portion of an outside courtyard provides the perfect place for an umbrella parking lot.   

Sweet Carolyn is becoming noted for wearing a beautiful flower in her hair.  Everyone wants to know if it is real.  Of course we say..."certainly, if it were not real, you could not see it."  (It's actually a foam flower).  Elder Howell couldn't resist the opportunity to "one-up" Sister Howell at the Tayabas chapel. (He temporarily demolished the RS centerpiece.) 

This lil piggy went to market...

Traveling to the town of Barra required assistance from President B.  We never would have found it down narrow streets and alleys, sometimes hubcap deep in mud.  But then, here is the branch building...a converted home. 

                                     There is not enough room for all the Sunday School classes, so this one has to convene out front, rain or shine.  Careful though...sometimes a car or motorbike comes round the corner and has to swerve to miss the class. 

We arrived, shook hands, took a seat, then a brother gestured for us to sit on the small stand, as we were the speakers, along with Pres. B.  He read a letter from the area church leader announcing a new chapel.  The congregation was in tears.  

On the way to BARRA Branch.                                                        This two-lane stretch was the nicest road of the trip.                          

More scenic travel.  Note the dam and the house on the water.  After meetings we were invited to a member's home for dinner.  Afterwards we sang Christmas carols in a quartet.                

Home, sweet home.  This is a good view of the balcony outside our "tree-house" bedroom.  Frequently on a warm, breezy morning we will sit out on the balcony for study time or work. 

From the balcony, we "look down" on our humble neighbor.  If you look closely, you can see her, in blue, washing her clothes in colorful tubs at the corner of her house.                              

Recently we learned of a baptism for an extended family of converts.  Of course the best font to use is the ocean.  It is bathtub warm and always available.  We were not in attendance, but got this picture from our senior missionary friends.                                

Here we enjoy a Christmas party with friends at the apartment of Elder and Sister B in Manila.

Bishop DG and family, of the Nagcarlan Ward is a painter.  For Christmas we bought three of his paintings, including the one of the Savior.  This is his front yard and porch and "studio".  The Savior painting cost 5,000 pesos, or $115.  He paints as he feels inspired, and make take a month to finish one.   

We invited the 8 senior missionaries in our area to a Christmas Eve "Shepherd's Dinner" and then a "King's Feast".  Dressing for the occasion was encouraged.  Elder Howell was a little sheepish about the whole thing.  Note the little sheep (cotton balls) on the "hillside" on the table, made by Sister Howell.  And note the wicker plates that held banana leaves on which we ate the dinner.

Christmas day found us on a short drive to Tanauan.  A good day for a baptism.  

K is beside Carolyn.  We decided to make an appointment for our initial meeting in December at his "Junk Shop" to see if he needed help to keep his commitment.  We discovered the Junk Shop was not a 2nd hand store, but rather a recycling drop-off.  It had been our intent to buy something to help him earn some money.  He greeted us happily and invited us to his open air "office" which was dripping wet.  Half of the framework was uncovered, the other portion had canvas fabric draped across it.  He told us he was short of cash to run his business since he had lent money to a new friend who needed some seed money to buy and sell vegetables on the street.  The man then absconded with the money and disappeared.  Without cash, K could not pay to obtain recycled material from his customers, and certainly not pay down his educational loan.  But as we stood there, getting dripped on and discussing his situation, we suggested we could request a temporary deferral of his school loan.  To our surprise, he insisted on paying his entire 6-months arrears of about 1,000 pesos ($24).  We insisted that he NOT pay.  He insisted back.  And we forth.  Finally he told us why he wanted to keep his commitment.  He had sold the tin roof over his office earlier in the day so he could have cash to run his business and enough to keep his promise.  Humbling.                                               

Sister Howell snapped this early morning shot of the temple on a recent trip into Manila.

During World War II the Japanese invaded the Philippines.  Guarding the bay that leads to Manila is an island known as Corregidor.  It was the main defense position and the place from which General McArthur departed, saying "I shall return".  On a P-Day we visited the island with 20 other senior missionaries from around the region.  The fortifications were impressive.  Since Sam and Greg are always comparing their "guns",  I thought I would do the same, standing next to a REAL gun.  The Japanese were successful in capturing the Philippines, and that led to the infamous Bataan Death March.  McArthur DID return, with American troops a couple of years later to recapture the Philippines in a raging, bloody battle.

Finally, a fruit stand with round watermelons, stacked like cannon balls.  Look at how they advertise the melons, with slices hung by                                                                                 strings.                                        

An unusual New Years Eve.

We love experiencing the culture, the beauty, and the simple life of the Philippines.  Having experienced New Year's Eves in Trafalgar Square, London and Times Square, NY we thought we were ready for little San Pablo, a city of 250,000.  Young missionaries had a 6 p.m. curfew.  We had training in a neighboring stake so we were tucked safely inside by 10 p.m.  We waited in our little treehouse and then sat on the balcony when it all started. 

The. Noise. Would. Not. Stop!  

And it began early.  No waiting until midnight here.  Rockets, cannons, firecrackers, roman candles, artillery shells, air bombs, and gunfire.  (We used to jump away from our windows when we heard gunshots in the past.  But now we just shrug and keep on working.)  

It is hard to believe we have crossed our 25% mark.  It seems like just yesterday we began this mission.  And yet it also seems like we have been here forever.  We are finding success reaching out to the many dedicated students and helping them to meet their commitments.  More about that later...and more unusual stories about these amazing people.  We love the work.  We love being together.  Sister Howell is an outstanding missionary, by any measure.  I am lucky to be her companion.  And lucky not to have had a transfer yet.

We are heading into the rural mission of Naga, to the south and east, in February.  Things are in pretty good control here in San Pablo, so it is time for new adventures.  

Love, 

Dad & Mom

Lane & Carolyn                                                                                                                   Elder & Sister Howell

CHRISTmas message - Epistle #4 of 20

Cherished family & friends,

Maligayang Pasko, (Merry Christmas in Tagalog) does not roll easily out of our mouths. But it is easy to love our Filipino 'siblings' and shepherd the participants in the education program.  

The blessings of serving a senior mission in the year 2011 are vast.  

~ When g'baby Slater was born in August, we saw and heard him on Skype!

~ When the Gerber family was sealed in September, we were there! 

~ When Carolyn's dad died in November, we emailed, facebooked and phoned Mom & family.

~ When challenging news hit our family last week, we have consoled one another daily.

Always the Good Shepherd lovingly, patiently, tenderly guides us.  We follow Him.  We represent him.  We love him. 

We love you too!!!

Momma & Dad

Carolyn & Lane

Sister Howell & Elder Howell

P.S. The recent floods hit in the Mindanao region.  We live in the Luzon region which is far away. 

THANKSGIVING - in photos

Thankfulness is the soil in which joy thrives.

"...that ye...take upon you the name of Christ; that ye humble yourselves...and worship God...and that ye live in thanksgiving daily, for the many mercies and blessings which he doth bestow upon you." (Alma 34:38)

 So as we mark our first thanksgiving in the Philippines...

Today we are thankful for:

A street broom. 

 

A clothes washer.

A bathroom sink. 

A vacuum (carpet sweeper).

 

A toothbrush holder. 

  

Warm winter weather, errr, more like HOT winter weather                         (our gummi worms got real friendly in the glove box).   

Friends who like Halo-halo dessert (best when stirred).   

  

Cameron and Kim saving us from grass jelly                                          (sending us radical jello flavors - like RASPBERRY!)

Fresh vegies...small but fresh!       

Durian fruit...smells like hell-o, tastes like hell-o. 

Atis fruit...tastes better than durians.

Happy Thanksgiving! 

 

We celebrated Monday with the senior missionaries.

 

 Elder & Sister Howell: 

 Yea, parents whose hearts did swell with thanksgiving to their God, for the many privileges and blessings which he bestowed upon their family.    (Likening Alma 48:12) 

We love you!!!   Have a happy day! 

Mom and Dad

Carolyn and Lane

Sister & Elder Howell