Monday, July 31, 2017

July 2017

JULY 2017
(this blog contains my weekly emails to my precious family)

WEEK 1 7/2/2017
Happy ‘I Forgot Day’,

1) We flew into SLC this past Tuesday and unleashed all sorts of crazy sick fun.

2) Biscuits are spoons you can eat!

3) Greg’s hearing was Thursday morning.  An officer of the Parole Board drilled Greg while 30 family and friends sat respectfully in the gallery.    After a few minutes it was over and he was ushered out.  Today Lincoln drove Lane and me back to Gunnison and we enjoyed a 3 hour visit with him.  We are all hopeful that he will receive good news this coming week.   

4)  To our delight Lane’s siblings already had a BBQ scheduled.

5)  What you do if you are waiting for a hot waffle and your name is Lane.

You eat an upside down waffle.  

6) I Forgot Day, by definition, today is not a day to remember. So, just what are you forgetting? Can you even remember? Is it important? Hopefully, not. Some days are days to remember and to cherish all of our lives. Others, like today, are ones to be forgotten. If you are having a bad day, it's just as well that today is I Forgot Day. I do hope that you are not getting married or having a baby today. The trouble is, if you forget something important tomorrow, you have to wait a whole year for the next I Forgot Day to arrive.  I Forgot Day is closely related to I'm Sorry Day.

7)  Other great family events included:
We passed the Oscar Mayer Weiner car.  A hike up Bell Canyon with g'sons.  A family pizza night.  A water fight with g’daughters.  AND our first ever temple session in the Manti Temple.  It was like stepping back in time.  When you come to the temple you will love your family with a deeper love than you have ever felt before.  The temple is about families.


8)  David England had his 2nd chemo treatment on the 27th and his next one is the 3rd.  His body is responding very well, so far.  We all love you David!

This coming week:
- The Fourth of July 
- Tyson’s birthday is the 7th!



WEEK 2 7/9/2017
Pham-ill-EEE   Son-Dae-Knight-Chec-Inn,

Whoop!  It was a fantastic week.  

1)  Family Night.  46 attended.  Four row block.  Several stepped out of the picture and my bad aim missed several others (like Darren & Steph H.)  So sorry.

2)  The actual 4th.  BBQ at Lincoln & Carrie’s.  Highlight: 2 varieties of homemade ice cream.  Great party.  Then fireworks overlooking the entire valley - 180 degree views.  Tiny.  Yes.  But non-stop for an hour!  Yes.



3)  I found my earring.



4) Our first alpine slide.  Snowbird visit to Judy & Steve’s timeshare.  (Lane’s baby sister)


5)  Energizer Bunny arrested:  Charged with battery.  ;o}


6)  Sister Marriott- “I have struggled to banish the mortal desire to have things my way, eventually realizing that my way is oh so lacking, limited, and inferior to the way of Jesus Christ. ‘His way is the path that leads to happiness in this life and eternal life in the world to come’."

Family Headlines:
Today ~ Cameron is bewildered why he got picked to be a High Priest.  “Don’t they have to be old-er?"
July 12th ~ Greg turns 45.
Speaking of Greg ~ no word from the BOPP yet.  It appears they are one week behind on their parole decisions. 


Let me hear how YOU are doing. 


WEEK 3 7/16/2017
It's Sunday already. 

1) Last Monday we received the super fabulous news that Greg's release is September 5th!!!

2) On Wednesday Harvey met g'kids


3) Thursday the Keys came calling


4) Friday the Bullocks joined us on our maiden trip to Cuba. 


5) Havana highlights


6) Colorful, distinctive, exciting


7)  the cars did not disappoint. 


8) We met some mighty fine folks beginning with our host & hostess (who rented us their home) -- to people in the streets -- to fellow saints in the Havana LDS branch.  This trip will long be remembered. 

9) We met Ernesto, who at age 14 tried his first piece of gum, a gift from his Jamaican aunt. With a gleam in his eye he recalled placing that chewed piece of gum in the freezer and pulling it out to be chewed on weekends. Each time he would add toothpaste to refresh the flavor. It lasted him one year!

10) Our A/C flipped off last night without a possible recovery. We were miserable but knew that's how 85% of Cubans live.  Our host told us if we wanted to experience life as a Cuban we should skip 2 meals a day. (Was he kidding?)

11)  Lane had hoped to ordain Cameron to be a High Priest, now serving in his ward's new bishopric.  Schedules were tight. Sorry Cameron. 

12) We return from this Cuban escapade tomorrow. 

This coming week:
18th Jerel Bullock's b-day
21st Jerry Adams' b-day
23rd Taggart Kelly's b-day
Happy birthday boyz!!!

(Due to weak wifi in Cuba this may arrive Monday)


WEEK 4  7/23/2017
Felicitations fabulous family!!!

1)  I may not be that funny or athletic or good looking or smart or talented…I forgot where I was going with this.

2)  This week I lived vicariously through these adventurous daughters.  Callie, Britni, and Jerry’s Erin each loaded up their kids and took 6-7 hour road trips to meet at a Super-8 in Baker City, Oregon and had a 3 day cousin get-together.  They enjoyed the pool, a nearby park for games and crafts, an Oregon Trail museum and even had a talent show in the town pavilion in true Creek style.   I am so proud of you amazing girls and your marvelous children.

3)  Forty-four days until Greg cashes in his GET OUT OF JAIL card.

4) I think I’ll just put an “Out of Order” sticker on my forehead and call it a day.

5) I recently read about Sister Sharon Eubank’s meeting with Pres Eyring.  The one where she was called to serve in the RS General Presidency while maintaining her work as director of LDS Charities.  Her reaction?  “My head exploded.  My brain shut down.  The phrase that kept running through my head was ‘How am I going to do that?’ “  She later gained courage and calmness when she learned who the new General RS President would be.  And again as she reviewed advice she had received earlier from Julie B Beck (a former RS GP).

When you are with people, remember they are each filled with troubles. Lift them to a higher plane. People come to be lifted. Build. Bring comfort from the Spirit. Don’t bring new programs or duties. People need lifting. 
“Remember to keep your own kingdom intact. This is your first stewardship—mother and father, brothers and sisters, children, husband, friends. These are eternal and they are given to you first. 
“When you can’t give more, when you’ve gone beyond your ability to give, then sit still. Call on the Holy Ghost and angels to come to you. Be still and get full.”
6) Dearest children, you are in my daily prayers.  God brought relief to Sister Eubank as she prayed for answers, He won’t forget you either.  

Today Tagg is NINE!
Tomorrow Luke is TEN!
Tuesday Maggie is EIGHT!
Saturday there is a fish fry in the Key West Ward.  Join us if you can…wishful thinking.  

We miss you.  Keep us appraised of what is happening in your life.  Hearing from you is a bright spot in my week.



WEEK 5 7/30/2017
Dearest dynamic descendants,

1)  We are trying to walk 10,000 steps a day, minimum.

2)  We spent the weekend in Key West.  The branch fish fry was incredibly scrumptious!

3) Only in the Keys - The Conch Train, Key Lime Pie on a stick (frozen and dipped in chocolate), a parrot on a bike, 95 degrees feels like 107.

4)  So far, my favorite talk from April Conference is by Elder Gary B Sabin.  
- his granddaughter scored all 3 goals during her soccer game.  The score was 2-1.  He didn’t dare ask who’d won!
 CONFERENCE IS A TIME OF REDIRECTION
- one of his scouts chose to sleep in the cold to avoid having to unroll and reroll his sleeping bag.
IF WE DON’T TAKE TIME TO PRAY EACH DAY WE WILL BE UNPROTECTED AND GROW SPIRITUALLY COLD   
- when we are out of sync with God ‘there is, in the Star Wars vernacular, a disturbance in the force.’
IN REALITY, IT IS MUCH EASIER TO BE “ALL IN” THAN PARTIALLY IN
- his dad lived to be 97 and always responded positively even when he should no longer stand, sit or barely speak “on a scale of 1-10, I’m about a 25!”
WE MIGHT NEED TO JUST LET SOME THINGS GO SO WE CAN HANG ON TO THOSE THINGS THAT REALLY MATTER.  (standing, sitting and speaking really matter to me but complaining about my lack doesn’t help anyone)

Coming soon:
David England is 86 TODAY!!!
Chloe will be 5 years old tomorrow - sweet!
Slater turns 6 on Saturday - hurray!

We love hearing from you.  You are sprinkled throughout our daily prayers.  As we count our blessings, you are there.  As we ask for health and guidance, you are there.  

I love you forever!
Scatter smiles & sunshine Ü
Momma, Momma C, Carolyn


Friday, June 30, 2017

June 2017

JUNE 2017 
(This blog has evolved into a place to share my emails to my family.  Here are the four I sent in June)

WEEK 1 6/4/2017


YOU really are my favorite people on the planet.  Line up everybody who has ever lived and I’ll pick you every time.

It was a great week!!!

These photos speak for themselves.

1)  West into the Everglades…(and one pic from our pool - "WHAT!?  You have a pool?”  Yeah, but we share it with a few other families.)


2)  South into the Florida Keys…

3)  Fishing in the Atlantic…

4)  When dog food is new and improved, who tests it?

What a week!  Harvey is lonely.  We miss you all.

Coming soon:
Caden prepares to serve a mission in Argentina.  Congratulations!  He enters the MTC in September.
5th    Randi & Roy celebrate 4 happy years!
7th    Jon marks the BIG 5–0.  Whoa!
7th    Stephanie is excited to be 41.
7th    Erin is ready to blow out 32 candles.
10th  Sophie May will turn 36 months…or the BIG 3!!! 
11th  'Sister Sarah’  is 20 in Singapore.


WEEK 2 6/11/2017

Hello darlings!

A fantastic week just happened.

1) Last week was seminary graduation and I had to crash it.  3 of my former students are preparing for missions and one is already serving.  Cool kids!

2)  Friday the 13th is on a Tuesday this month.  So weird!

3)  Some of you are familiar with my little brothers miniature 1” pieces of art.  Hoping that this talent might be genetic I gave it a try.  Of course mine is Moses before Aaron and Hur stepped in to support his arms.  "Nailed it!"
4)  We put in a patio garden.  And we love it.  

5)  I got called ‘pretty’ today!  Well actually the full statement was ‘you’re pretty annoying’ but I only focus on the positive things.

6)  If you want to give a light to others, you have to glow yourself.  ~ Thomas S Monson.  

7)  Set aside November 23rd if you’d like to share Thanksgiving dinner together, in South Jordan.  
     
Today Sister Sarah Hill turns 20. 


WEEK 3 6/18/2017

Dear frolicking family,

The nitty gritty…

1)  June 19th-22nd, Regional Girls Camp. I am crazy tired and we haven’t even left the gate yet.  Lane joins the gang on the 21st.  Fun times!


2)
 

Well, not exactly.  But I did leave the oven on after I baked brownies this past week.  Harvey was nice and hot when we came home from the movies.


3)  I hope all of you dear dad’s had a great day.  I really appreciate your dad skills.  Keep them sharp, you’re gonna need them a long time. 
 
  

4)  If you feel picked on, shunned, less than, ignored, or ridiculed... “rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets - and even our perfect brother Jesus - which were before you.”  Matthew 5:11-12

Coming Saturday, June 24th
Heston will turn 4!!!!
Danny becomes old enough to be a beehive ;o}
David celebrates being 14…hurray!


WEEK 4  6/25/2017

Well hello again!

I’ve missed you.  I love hearing from you whether it be a phone call, text, skype, email, personal visit, snail mail…you get the idea.  What a blessing it is to live and breathe in 2017.  

1)  Another Young Women’s camp is in the record books.  The last time I camped with YW was 18 years ago…so this week I really partied like it was 1999!  Haha.  (Jami was 12)


2)  Some highlights.   
Sister Neill F Marriott came. (General YW 2nd Counselor)  My emotions prompted a hug.  Sweet woman. 


3)  The fabulous girls of Homestead Ward with our incredible bishop - who drove 6 hours round trip to be with us.  (photo 11:45 p.m. 2 girls were already in bed.  Bishop Hernandez quickly posted this pic to FB prompting a midnight text from a concerned parent whose daughter was asleep and a confession from me that the rest of us broke camp curfew)


4)  Post-camp itinerary…a 3 hour nap on the bus ride home.  They earned it!  I earned their respect by outlasting them EVERY SINGLE NIGHT.  ;o}


5)  Home in my own little bed.  Laundry is done.  Sharing-time subbing completed.  I got a new calling today.

6)  Our Good Shepherd is unchanging…He does not recoil from us because we sin. In doing so, Jesus Christ also set the example for us to follow — to show respect to all and hatred towards none.   ~ Elder Dale G Renlund  (my favorite junior apostle)

7)


8)  David England, my step-dad, had his first dose of meds to combat cancer of the bladder last week and did really well!  He just has 5 more treatments to go.  Prayers are appreciated.

Coming soon:
Sam & Jamie’s Russell will be ONE on Tuesday!
Greg’s special hearing is Thursday at the Gunnison facility.  (We plan to attend)
Our 1st Great G’daughter, Hailee Hill, celebrates her 1st b-day on the 30th.


I love you forever!
Scatter smiles & sunshine  Ü
Momma, Momma C & Carolyn











Wednesday, May 31, 2017

May 2017

MAY 2017  (here are the 4 weekly check-in emails I shared with our family)


WEEK 1 5/8/2017
Hey Jazz fans...and those who aren’t,

Lane & I will never know what it would have been like to raise up young kids TOGETHER.  But we do know what it’s like to entertain a handful of sweet grandkids.  It’s pretty radical and rewarding.  

1)  It’s wonderful to give these Kelley kids a few weeks to get to know us (while their parents visit Thailand).  These resilient kids are surviving us.


2)  Tagg created ‘g’ma bucks’ as a way for the kids to earn movie treats.  Then he set up this concession stand to redeem them.  We watched Babe.  When the kids tackle g’pa I hear echoes of “Baa-Ram-Ewe”.  So funny!


3)  They were excited to use their annual passes at Cherry Hill.  We had the place all to ourselves.  (Tip: Go on a Tuesday afternoon when soccer practice is cancelled.)


4)  Lane made the most scrumptious cinnamon rolls just because he can.



5)  Sunday afternoon we gathered to celebrate Isaac’s 5th.  Carrie and Lincoln are super generous hosts.  Yummy pork, spuds, corn cobbettes, salad, 7 layer dip, deviled eggs, veggies, mouth watering rolls, and Texas sheet cake with ice cream.  Darn it…Lane was on a clear liquid diet.  “Wow, this colonoscopy prep is so delicious, I think I’ll drink another!”…said no one ever.

(With his colonoscopy behind him, Lane and I are driving to Gunnison to visit Greg.  We thank X for stepping up to fill-in for the fill-er-inners.) 

6)  If we buy 10 acres of land do we own it all the way to the core of the earth?  And if that is true, how big would it be at the core?

7)  I mistakenly bought my shoes from a drug dealer.  I don’t know what he laced them with but I’ve been tripping all day.  ;o}

Coming this week:
Friday the 12th,  Hurray for Raylie who will be 6!  
The Kelley’s return home from Thailand.

WEEK 2 5/14/2017
Salutations sterling kinsfolk,

News of the week:

1)  See what you can do during a 3 hour prison visit

2)  Greg drew floorpans of his pod and cell.  Quite a good likeness.  The real thing (pod) is on the bottom (Cameron shared this from a recent news story, thx).
The sketch on the top left is Greg on the bottom bunk as he watches TV with his headphones on.

3)  Greg invited us to drive by the SanPete facility, so we drove back to Layton through Manti.  Ahhh, the memories!
"Each of our temples is an expression of our testimony that life beyond the grave is as real and as certain as is our life here on earth.  I so testify.”  Thomas S Monson

4)  The Kelley kids continued to impress us with their vim & vigor.  The kids were entertained by G’pa Lane’s snoring.  Bike rides and walks.  Tagg wakes at 6:15 on weekdays to practice piano.  Healthy snacking and popsicles.  They were ultra excited to have their mom & dad back late Friday afternoon.  Mer & Tyson, thanks for entrusting us with your sweet kids.
 


5) My brother Clayton marks his 60th birthday TODAY.  But his wife Michelle pre-empted by putting together a party for him Thursday.  My mom came along, 5 of her kids and 6 of her kid-in-laws.  I also enjoyed time with the Gerbers, nieces & nephews.

6) Our best chance to get Lane home for work on Monday was to catch flights yesterday.  We landed this morning at 4:50 a.m.  Again we thank Stephanie and JetBlue.  Direct flights from Longbeach to Ft Lauderdale started this very month.  
We are home!  My mother’s day gift was a 4 hour nap.  


It’s an actual fact that I have the best mother on the planet.  Because of her limitless love and outstanding example I positively, absolutely love being a mom!  I’ve been super blessed to have my dream job.  Tough, challenging, tear-jerking, rewarding, joyful.  Happy Mother’s day to all of my amazing daughters.  THIS IS YOUR DAY!
Coming soon:
19th  My momma’s birthday!
20th  Amanda will be old enough to be a deacon.  ;o}
20th  X & KC will have been married for 8 years  <3
21st  Caden celebrates his 19th birthday


WEEK 3 5/21/2017
Hey hey hey!

1)  Life is good.  I had oatmeal for breakfast yesterday.  Banana Foster Oatmeal.  That’s steel-cut oatmeal topped with bananas, caramel, candied pecans, cinnamon and whipped cream.  But the best part was the ‘sweet crisp’ served on the side.  Try it sometime.

2) When I’m alone I talk to myself out loud.  Do you do that?

3)  Last night I finished the second coat on our front porch steps.  It was dark.  I painted by flashlight.  Nuisance bugs flew in and out of the wet paint, leaving teeny-weeny footprints on my trailer pad.  Don’t strain your eyes you can’t see ‘em.  Poor things.
  

4) Yes, we live in a trailer, nearly 10 months.  And we still love it!


5)  "YOU are vibrant and enthusiastic beacons in an ever-darkening world as you show, through the way you live your lives, that the gospel is a joyful message.”  Sister Harriet Uchtdorf

6)  My mother was the special guest at a fabulous tea party yesterday, hosted by my incredible sister Charla.  Callie, thanks for attending and sharing these photos.


Coming soon:
Caden is 19 TODAY - cheers!
Rockwell will be 6 TOMORROW - yippy!
Sam will be 36 TOMORROW - Hurray!
Kylie will be 17 Saturday - Celebrate!
Scott & Lincoln arrive in South Florida late Saturday - Hallelujah!

WEEK 4 5/28/2017

Hello sterling sons and darling daughters,

1)  Just as I was telling Lane “it’s been nearly 1 1/2 years since one of the kids made a baby announcement” we received this from the Robisons.  Yippy!

2) AND this from the Gerbers…. ;o}   “Another ballon is gonna pop!  Popping December 2017”  Congratulations!


3)  The week started and ended with the temple.  Cleaning it on Tuesday, and patrons on Friday.  (a fraction of the 30 person cleaning crew is pictured here)
“At the temple the dust of distraction seems to settle out, the fog and the haze seem to lift, and we can ‘see’ things that we were not able to see before and find a way through our troubles that we had not previously known.”  - Boyd K. Packer, former President of the Quorum of the twelve Apostles.

Remember your deceased family members on this memorial day.  This temple will be open, will yours?

4)  The LDS “temple prayer roll” is a confidential running list of the names of people who are ‘sick or otherwise afflicted’. I always add my own name to the temple prayer roll and sometimes your name too.


5)  I am making slow progress preparing 16 girls from my ward to attend a regional girls camp (7 stakes).  This group hiked 5 miles yesterday.


6)  We happily welcomed Lincoln and Scott to south Florida last night.  They will be here a week!  We had a glimpse into Shark Valley this afternoon.


7)  I liked this perspective on time which I remember from sacrament meeting today.  

I only have a minute, just sixty seconds in it.
Didn’t seek it, didn’t choose it,
Forced upon me, can’t refuse it.
But it’s up to me to use it.
I must suffer or I lose it.
Give account if I abuse it.
It’s just a tiny little minute,
But eternity is in it.
    - Benjamin E Mays

8)  Oh, and we ‘planted’ a patio garden but it’s too dark now to snap a photo.  

We love hearing from you.  Keep us posted.

We love you forever!