Monday, September 19, 2011

The Philippine Post

Today is September 19th, 2011


Sharing time begins:

- Happy Birthday to Randi!















- We made a record-breaking fast trip to the Oquirrh Mtn temple and "home" again.  In the air 58 hours, on land 47 hours.
- It was a g'momma's dream to hold Raylie at the altar during the sealing.
- Callie and Rayson had a wonderful day!
- Elder D.T.C. took time to perform the sealing.
- My favorite calling in the past has been ward newsletter editor.  Most relieved upon release; ward newsletter editor.
- I've now consented to compiling a PEF Newsletter/Philippines Area
- Upon our return from Utah I dove into a 2 day project to complete the PEF newsletter.  Whew!  
- The newsletter blasts out by email to priesthood leaders, PEF participants and others today (1000+).
- In one presentation to institute teachers, Elder Howell actually asked "how old do you think Sis. Howell is?"  They answered, "57?, 56?"  (I AM BARELY 53!!!)
- I must remember that a young woman age 25 here can pass for 15.  I DO look pretty ancient to them.
- Mouse #2 caught on a sticky trap. 
- I love sticky traps!
- Our mission president is President P.  He invited us to accompany him and his wife to a district conference.
- Lane spoke at 3 sessions and did a marvelous job, as always!
- I spoke at 2 and gave support to Sister P. at the auxiliary training.  She said " please attend the breakout session with the Primary leaders and take these handouts with you."  
- I walked into the primary session, took a seat and the district primary president says "Sister Howell will now give us our training."
- I was dumbfounded, yet found the words to guide them in their efforts to lead and teach the children.
- While dining with S and I teachers we were served an interesting dessert called "mix-mix", ice cream topped with whole kernel corn.  (Or corn topped with ice cream.)  Not yummmm ; ( When I was caught separating my corn, I was told to stir it in for the best flavor.  Gag!


- Said out loud yesterday at church "I bet Sister Howell was pretty when she was younger."   ;o}
- We have been getting busier by the day.  We have now committed to teach 5 institute classes throughout the mission. (Eternal Marriage [honk if you believe that one], English Proficiency, and Planning for Success {required for PEF loans}.)
- Lane asked me "which mission has been harder for you?"  Well, in NYC we had only 1 mouse in 2 years.  In my Philippine home we've had 2 in less than 2 weeks. EEK!
- 91 weeks left.  You do the numbers.
- I am placing tape on the bottom of each door.
- AND buying 91 sticky traps! 
- Lane is in heaven on this mission. Friday we traveled by ferry to the island of Marinduque (mare-inn-dew-kay) to visit with church leaders and youth. If you can see the photo, our silver car is in the bottom left hand corner.
We love you!
Scatter smiles & sunshine ; D
Momma & Dad
Sister & Elder Howell

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Daily Life

September, 2011




Daily life
Air conditioning day and night.  Except when there is a "brown-out", like yesterday at church.  (Lane almost fainted from the heat).  We wake up around 6 or 7 to daylight in our loft bedroom, looking out at the palm trees and greenery and listening to the roosters crowing, the rain on our tin roof, the yapping dogs next door, or the tricycles tooting to pick up someone nearby.  Study time, planning time, breakfast and working on our computers is next.  Then into the car and off to a far away place to find a priesthood leader.  In the evenings we reorganize our plans, watch some CNN international on our new TV, and check the Internet for family news.  We have learned that if we do not send, we do not receive.  But until a week ago, we did not have access to electronic communication.  Our I-phones now have a "jail-break" chip in them that allows them to function here.  The I-pad has 3G and we have a wireless Internet installed in the house.  But the ordeal to get this all done was another story you will probably never hear.  Suffice it to say we are connected. 



Carolyn loves to fix meals.  We have had a scrumptious chicken divan, spaghetti, shepherds pie, and lots of rice on various evenings.  A lot of American food is available for a premium in the stores.  The SM (Save More) Mall has a very nice grocery store but we have a hard time getting fresh milk and a few other things.  All fruits and vegetables get washed in chlorine water when we get home, whether they can be peeled or not.   (4 months into our mission we relax this quite a bit)


SM also houses a McDonalds, a KFC and a Pizza Hut (Carolyn's new favorite meal; a 'garlic-shrimp-mango-salad' and a mango shake).  All in all, we are not suffering, and certainly not sacrificing.  This whole experience is just like a party or a fun vacation.  We are so blessed.


Carolyn keeps saying we were prepared for this mission.  Living in Florida's climate, driving in Italy and driving on the "wrong" side of the road in England.  Driving here is like playing a friendly game of chicken.  You look for every opportunity to wedge your way into traffic, and if you get their first, you win.  Passing without regard to the double yellow lines.  Tooting your horn to let someone know you are coming around them, on the right or the left.  The streets are packed with "Jeepnies" (strange looking mini buses you climb in at the back or just hang onto the side), "Tricycles" (Motorbikes with covered sidecars), huge buses, trucks, pedal carts, motorcycles, armored vehicles and cars.  But especially tricycles.  And when you get directions, they often say, "Just follow the tricycles".  It works!  At first it is scary, and then it becomes more like a game.  But still, great care must be exercised.  I have driven too close to a tree branch and put a big scar from front to back on the passenger side.  My alternative was to side-swipe an oncoming truck on a road too narrow to be considered more than one lane.  That's my story and I'm sticking to it.



 The Spiritual Side of Serving a Mission
  • Prayer with your spouse in some of the remote places on earth.
  • Attending a mission zone conference with 50 or 60 bright, shiny Elders and Sisters, most of which are miniature people -- running about 5 feet tall on average.  And then there is the occasional American elder.  We have one that is 6'8" and wow, does he stand out.  We have learned that Filipinos make up over 60% of the missionaries here.  They dress smartly and generally out-shine the Americanos in dress and grooming.  And according to the mission president, the Filipinos are frequently the most obedient and dedicated.  Go figure.  They come from poverty and have so little of life's amenities.
  • Meeting with Elder T, the new pres of the area.  What a wonderful, warm, caring man.  And what an example to his people.  

 
  • President P, our new Mission President who has been here for 6 weeks.  He tells the following story:  "I frequently ask a member to tell me of their conversion story.  This past week I interviewed a member who told me her husband just left her one day and never came back.  She was left with no income to take care of her 6 children.  After a short time her power was turned off.  And then the water.  And she was rapidly running out of her meager food supplies.  She was desperate and had no where to turn.  Her kids were crying a lot and showing signs of extreme hunger.  Feeling she could not bear to watch them starve to death, she determined she would take their lives, along with her own.  She obtained a bottle of poison, cooked a small bowl of their remaining rice and told the kids they were going on a picnic to the beach.  On the beach she prepared to slip the poison into the rice, but decided to pray to ask forgiveness for what she was about to do.  After she prayed, she looked up to see two young men in white shirts and ties.  They asked her if they could teach her about Jesus Christ and his church.  The spirit was so strong as they talked, she quietly buried the poison in the sand.  She went on to join the church with her family.  Knowing how to sew, she was asked by a woman to create a dress for her.  And then several dresses.  Today she owns a dress-making business and is building a dress shop with her own hands.  She has 2 employees and is able to look after her family.  And she was visiting with President P to renew her temple recommend.   
  • We are here to serve the Lord, to show obedience to His prophet, and to serve His beloved children.

We are tired and ready for bed.  But not before wishing you all good health and happiness.   May you find joy in your journey.  Exercise faith in Jesus Christ and follow Him.  Be grateful.  Be thoughtful.  Be kind.  Be patient.  Amen & amen.

Love you forever!
Sister & Elder Howell
Mom & Dad
Carolyn & Lane

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Arrival & Settling in...

Arriving in Manila

July 24, 2011 - July 26, 2011  A Sunday evening flight to L.A., Hong Kong and Manila totaling 28 hours from SLC.  Arrived in a rain storm, very tired on Tuesday morning.  Carolyn slept all the way through Monday.   :o}   

Rain, low clouds and more rain.  And overwhelming, moist heat.  Make a note.  Stay indoors with A/C whenever possible.  After a week of this, our impression was that we might never see the sun or be cool again.  We learned that 2 typhoons were bearing down on the Philippines, flooding roads and closing schools and offices.  But to us it just seemed like our new life.  We stayed 4 nights on the 18th floor of the Holiday Inn.



Spent our daytime hours in the Manila church offices.  Wonderful.  New experiences.  This is what we wanted...what life is all about!! 

July 28, 2011   Thursday we were chauffeured 2 hours south of the Manila mega-city to San Pablo, a country town, for a temporary visit to our new home.  We traveled on a "highway" with unending huts (homes) doubling as roadside vending stalls.  It seems everyone is selling something. Car parts, fruits, candy, vegetables, papers, coconuts, bar-b-qued meat, frappes, soda....you name it.  And it goes on and on and on.

The introduction to our house was shocking.  Dirty, bug-infested, with garish decor, and lacking most of the furniture you would expect in a "furnished" apartment or home.  Chandeliers with cobwebs that would be acceptable in the Tower of Terror, broken windows, windows rusted open, a tub with no faucet or handles, plumbing leaks onto the floors, and roof leaks in multiple areas.  The prior tenants had been the caretakers.  To our amazement, they are building an attachment to the carport where they will live and become our closest neighbors.  But they are sweet, generous and caring people. 

On the other side, actually attached to our house, is a tin shed with no real windows and doors, housing a family of 5 in a space no bigger than a large, two-car garage.  The father has been bedridden for 8 years.  Extremely nice people. 


The area is beautiful, tropical and many streets are quite overgrown with jungle plants, narrowing the pavement and hanging low overhead.   


July 30th, 2011  Today checked out of the Manila Holiday Inn and made San Pablo our home!   First order of business - find a mattress and bedding and figure out how to get ready for church the next morning.  And then, figuring out what to do with our unusual housing.

But, thankfully, I am married to a creative wonder-woman.  With the help of church contractors, a neighborhood handy-man, and a little hired cleaning help, Carolyn has done her magic.  We moved the solid wood bed and mattress outside, hoisted it up and over the 2nd floor balcony to the light, bright, abandoned upper room, which looks out through the trees, all because the interior spiral stairs are only 2 feet wide. 



We brought in fumigators (twice), painted, scrubbed, repeatedly cleaned up termite chewings, bought some new furniture, made multiple trips to the hardware store and the "SM Mall", obtained light bulbs, new window coverings (drapes), and clear plastic sheeting to cover the open windows.  Then, more cleaning, catching lizards, sweeping up cockroaches, fighting giant flying ants coming in toward the light at night, and we finally felt like we had a home we could live in.  In fact, it is now quite nice.  Another senior missionary couple that has been looking for housing for 5 weeks came by and stood astonished at our good fortune and how beautiful and nice our home is.  We just smiled, knowing what it was like 10 days prior.

~ Lane

Here is our home for the next 23 months.  
Four bedrooms and three bathrooms. 
Rental rate is p10,000 per month ($250)


August 31, 2011   One month later, we are about 99% settled in.  My caulking gun ran dry after 3 tubes of caulk, the wall putty container is empty, and my gallon of white paint is gone.  (Can you believe I chose white!?)  

I have 2 kitchens with a total of 3 sinks.  And 3 bathrooms with a total of 2 sinks.  Our master bathroom is very small with only a toilet and shower.  This is alright because we brush our teeth in the kitchen where we have a 5 gallon purified water dispenser.  Our water heater is connected only in the master shower.  
We retiled the master bath, added a toilet seat, rotated the commode and generally gutted the place.  
(before)


(during)

In the Philippines the restroom is known as the Comfort Room, or C.R.  Now, our master bath space fits it's name. 
(after)

I get propane tanks delivered for the stove which has 4 gas burners, one electric burner and an electric oven.  We have no washer and dryer but have hired a house helper who comes once a week to hand wash our laundry, hangs it out on the 11 clothes lines we've hung and she irons while she waits for the clothes to dry.   

Living area: before and after


Dining area; before and after

To cool the space we have 3 air conditioners now.  And we added a dual water filter on the main kitchen tap for washing dishes and fresh produce.

before and after

Lane had the crazy brilliant idea to hoist the bed over the balcony and into our 'treehouse bedroom'.  We love the bright, open feel, fresh air, and the option to pick coconuts from the balcony.  

One other note of interest.  For garbage collection we hang bags of garbage in the trees.

We are starting to travel quite a bit to meet church leaders, students, missionaries and teachers. The humid weather is quite nice.  I even enjoy the rain.  I have decided to name the lizards.  We get along best when they stay on the walls and avoid the ceiling and floors.  I have decided that everything in my life has prepared me to be here...moving, traveling, painting, rainy Washington, creepy and crawly creatures and humidity in Florida, the traffic in NYC, Mexico, and Italy.

We purchased a Philippines GPS app yesterday for the ipad.  It works best with latitude and longitude coordinates.  I am not quite sure of our address.  We don't have a house number or even a mail box.  I will find out our province and postal code.

We slip home in September for Callie, Rayson and Raylie's temple sealing.  I am sooo excited!

I am Carolyn 

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Training to serve a mission

Training July 11 - 22, 2011
The Em. Tee. Sea.

Wonderful training.  Spirited young returned missionaries teaching old dogs new tricks.  And staying at the Provo Marriott or the Creek's home at night.  How do you explain the feeling of going into the cafeteria and eating side by side with 2,000 to 3,000 young elders and sisters?  Hearing their stories brought tears to our eyes more than once.  Meeting with Elder C and another Elder C to obtain their perspective was wonderful.  We have memories we will never forget...I think.  Here are a few photos to mark the events of these pivotal two weeks:

My 'companion' is the hunkiest!

San Pablo.  Never heard of it.  Naga, Manila, Cebu.  Yes.  San Pablo?  Nope.  However, I can put my finger on the Philippines.  Somewhere over here, on the other side of the world...14 hour time difference.  Most days I am excited.  Everyday, a little nervous.  I have never lived outside of the U.S.  And it's far from my g'babies.  Some I will meet when they can run away from me.  Tears.  But, a prophet is a prophet.  I love him.  He is good, kind, funny, and he speaks for GOD!  

Our senior study group was awesome, and our trainers were the very best.  These other couples inspire me.  Our group is splitting up and heading to California, New Jersey and Paris, France.  Oh, and the Philippines!  That's us!

Travel arrangements are FINAL!  We are getting on a plane in a few hours.  Three consolations; I love my companion!  I will love my Filipino family!  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the real deal!

My momma planned a dessert night as a final sendoff.  We took this photo to make my sister Cathleen smile.  Creek women:  Mother and 4 daughters,  (Heather stands in for Cathleen)

Goodbye to 4 of the most fabulous kids on the planet (Raylie stands in for Britni)!!!  These kiddos hung out until our taillights were out of sight.  I love them forever!


My life with Lane has had 7 chapters, each of them 2 years on average.  Orlando, Little Rock, Lauderdale, South Jordan, West Jordan, Manhattan, and Salt Lake City.  The Philippines chapter begins!


I really am grateful to have the health, ability, and opportunity to fulfill this 2 year assignment.


I am Carolyn.  A wife, momma and g'momma.  My dreams have all come true!


Saturday, July 9, 2011

H O M E

U.S.A. and FAMILY

 We are so thrilled to be home!
If only for a few weeks.
We are excited for the next 20 days.
Here's the line up...

Introduction to Alta. She is sweet!

Cherished family time at the
The Kelley cabin
(Kelley Klan - Thanks for sharing and hosting)
 Amanda takes Jamie and Sam for a ride.

Combined birthday lunch with my BFF
(Lora, I love you! And not just for the fantastic airbrush job.)

We love slurpees!

A final puzzle challenge with my dad.  
(Challenging because we had no picture.)

Tom and Shalaun planned a BEE's Game
 cheering section:  Hills, Howells,
 Kelleys,
 Bullocks

Garden peas
courtesy of Sam, Jamie and Greg

Our "lives savings" in 60 boxes
...40 boxes too many!

We would drive to Gardnerville again just for the hamburgers
(and to hear X play her oboe)

Got pepper?

A souvenir photo completes each tour of Jami's house

Raylie loves me!

Shalaun always knew that Tom was a swinging' guy

"If-your-happy-and-you-know-it" eat some crab!

Perfect timing for Davids baptism day

Following in the footsteps of Jesus
Baptism by immersion with priesthood authority

Tagg turns two and whomps on his pinata cake  
(Mer - that was awesome!)

Lane and I also volunteered on Wednesdays and Thursdays at the church offices in SLC.  As for my personal plans?  I am racing to get my personal shopping done.  It's been daunting for me.  I finally bought some clothes last night as a last resort.  Nothing I can get too excited about but I have to learn that that's not the point of sister missionary clothes.  I have a huge to-do list...but particularly my nose doctor, my foot doctor, my driver's license renewed, my computer email/facebook/address files and calendar all synced and ready for the road, my hair dyed and something else....oh, PACK.  

And as few teary good-byes as possible.  No fussing.  Monday is just another day.

Hug those cute kids!!!!!  xoxoxoxo
Love you, Momma and Dad
Carolyn and Lane